The great relationship wiseman, Woody Allen, once said “A relationship is like a shark. It has to keep moving or it dies.” (See the first post in our musical set for a youtube scene from Annie Hall). Move, moving, MOVEMENT. That’s the topic. If you think about it, without movement everything gets sick and dies. […]
Just a word about my professional background. My core training is Gestalt Therapy. Key concepts are the interactive and experience cycle. There are five positions in the cycle: Awareness, Energy-Action, Contact, Resolution, and Withdrawal. The idea is that for any endeavor we pass through each of these positions in order to acheive completion and […]
Do you believe you can fix someone? Have you rationalized entering into a relationship with the idea that you can change someone into the person of your dreams? If you are about to do that I say “good luck.” If you’ve already done that and live with the philosophy of “I can fix you,” well, […]
Hi all. Sorry to say, but this week I’m so swamped with work from my practice that I’ve decided that this is a good time to plug in “Free Form” for our discussion (next week my blog will be called “The Fix” and will deal with the compulsion for many of us to try to […]